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Online Sex Advice and Sexual Problems Forum :: Not sure if boyfriend is bisexual?

Author: znra
Subject: Not sure if boyfriend is bisexual?
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:14 am (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 0

Hi,
I am quite new to this forum but I would appreciate if anyone has any adivce or has been in a similar situation -
my boyfriend and I have a very good sex life, we have been together for a long time now but we share everything sexually and indulge each other's fantasies. I myself am bisexual although I have never acted on this, but it turns him on that I like girls and we talk about that a lot (what guy doesn't ).
About a year ago my boyfriend told me about his fantasy of seeing me dressed or acting like a slut, and being really dirty ie sleeping with other men. This turned me on too so we talked about that a lot, and I occasionally dressed up for him, although I haven't done that for a while. His fantasy then progressed to us having a threesome with another guy, which again turned me on a lot so we enjoy talking about it. It's now got to the point where pretty much every time we have sex we talk about it, and it wasn't until recently that I considered the possibility that my boyfriend might be bi. I'm sure he's not gay, he is definitely too much sexually interested in women for that.
But what started to worry me is that he likes the idea of being a cuckold, ie me being done by a man who is far bigger and better than him. He then started to save pictures and videos for me that he thinks I would like, we then look at the pictures together later. I must stress I don't mind any of this.
However, the pictures he is saving for me, well some of them are from bisexual sites and I also wonder why he would want to spend hours looking at pictures of naked men when I am not there? He says it is for me but I am a bit confused. I am even more confused that he is not hiding it either. It isn't like he is looking at bi or gay porn and then deleting his internet history, he is saving these things for me and likes me to look at well endowed men. He said he would like the feeling of being humiliated or jealous that I am being satisfied better than he can do it, and I don't want to go into too much detail, but there is one thing he wants to do, or wants to be made to do which seems a bit gay/bi.
Am I worrying about nothing? If he is bi I wouldn't mind at all, it just worries me that he might have desires which he hasn't admitted to either me or himself. I would actually like to try having a threesome but I am worried he will realise he likes men and actually wants to be with one. I am just confused by the fact that a high percentage of the time he spends looking at porn goes on well endowed naked men.
Perhaps it is that I don't really understand cuckolding. I have tried but I don't really get why he wants to feel jealous or humiliated, after all I can't think of anything worse than having to watch a beautiful girl pleasure him better than I ever do.
Does it sound like he is bi to anyone, or does anyone on here have any experience of the cuckolding lifestyle?
Thanks

Online Sex Advice and Sexual Problems Forum :: i masturbate too much, will it affect me in future..??

Author: shanky
Subject: i masturbate too much, will it affect me in future..??
Posted: Mon May 14, 2012 2:08 pm (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 0

hi..im 19 and i have a habit of masturbating everyday.... but after every masturbation i feel very weak....and im not also able to quit this habbit....please tell me if i keep on masturbating like this will it affect me in future...or is it ok to keep masturbating like this...

Online Sex Advice and Sexual Problems Forum :: RE: my girlfriend hymen just won't break

Author: kickyc
Posted: Sun May 13, 2012 5:44 pm (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 2

Might be an idea to take 4 minutes to educate yourself on the matter

Google and watch a YouTube video

Relationship Help and Advice Forum :: RE: HELP PLEASE!

Author: funloving
Posted: Fri May 11, 2012 7:52 pm (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 2

Hi Sue

Many thanks for your reply and I will certainly give that a try, but it will be hard.

Thanks again.

Relationship Help and Advice Forum :: RE: HELP PLEASE!

Author: Suebh
Posted: Fri May 11, 2012 9:58 am (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 2

HI, I am wondering if you would put yourself first for a while instead of waiting for others to put you first? I know it will be hard to do but the outcome has benefits. I went on strike a few years back, did the bare minimum (we are the adults after all lol) When those around start noticing how un nice it is without your extra loving touches. Don't wait for others to validate you, validate yourself. Hope this is of some help. I know how hurt you must be.

Kind thoughts

Sue
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Relationship Help and Advice Forum :: HELP PLEASE!

Author: funloving
Subject: HELP PLEASE!
Posted: Thu May 10, 2012 11:23 pm (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 2

First can I say hello to everyone.

I've joined this forum because I don't have anyone I can talk to about this.

The problem is I'm really angry, sad and annoyed, but I'm being made to feel as though it's me and I'm being childish and stupid. Please can someone let me know what you think. Well I'd better fill you in on the problem.

It was my 40th birthday yesterday and so at the weekend we'd had a party at home (it a joint house warming and birthday party) just for family and some friends of my husbands. My husband doesn't like my family and so he spent the evening with his friends, which was fine. Well yesterday, when it actually was my birthday, I went to work in the morning as normal and took the kids to school, the youngest wished me happy birthday in the morning the oldest didn't, but that's teenagers for you. Anyway, we came home in the evening and nothing, my husband hadn't even got me a card (which by the way was all I wanted). I asked the youngest, about my card and nothing. My son went to talk to his dad to mention I didn't seem happy and so my husband sent our son to the local corner shop for a card! So I took the dog out and then took myself off in the car for the evening, then came home and went to bed. My husbands excuse is that he didn't have any money, he if off work at the moment on leave, he'd had money at the weekend, but never even thought of saving some to buy a card for me off him and the kids! I always put them first and I always make sure that any of their birthdays are always great.

Am I being childish? I feel totally and utterly let down and unappreciated and unloved, my eyes have been swollen all day from all the crying I did last night. I'm not talking to any of them at the moment and I have even took off my wedding rings because of how strong I feel. We've been together for nearly 19 years!!! I don't ask or demand anything, I only wanted a card. Just to show that I've been in their thoughts and that I am cared for.

Please can somebody read and answer me.

Breaking-up a relationship Forum :: Is my ex gf wants back to me ?

Author: fisher
Subject: Is my ex gf wants back to me ?
Posted: Tue May 01, 2012 11:35 pm (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 0

i broke up with my gf nearly 2 months ago , i love her so much , im thinking about her everyday , every minute , and i really feel pain when she is not near , i cant even study or focus on anything but she seems cold , after the break up she started texting me or writing to me on social network site , sometimes asking me if i have met new girl ,while its hard for me to ask her if she found new man cuz its hurts me if her answer will be yes .. and every time im asking her that maybe we can solve our problems and back , she is telling me that we broke up but at the same time she still talking to me , for example last night we talked online she said in general i dont like to meet with my ex while she's keeping talk to me in the internet and sometimes texting me .. im really confused !

Relationship Help and Advice Forum :: mother in-law relationship problem

Author: ^kaina^
Subject: mother in-law relationship problem
Posted: Tue May 01, 2012 3:47 am (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 0

hi! Ive been married for almost 5 years,from the time we got married were living i my mother in-laws house.were with his older brother who had 2 son but no wife. we had also 2 son and we are 8 heads in that house. Its really hard to live in that house because i cant do anything i want even the way i raised my child is always been noticed with my mother in-law.specially when i had fight with my husband im the one whos always wrong.....
My parents give me a portion of land but we cant afford to build house in there because of financial problem.i dont have work and my husband is the only one whos working in that house....

Please help me in what should i do.
Please someone who have a good heart that will help us to support in building our own house.im desperate now to leave that house....my mother in-law always saying badwords and always nag at us...please help us. Thank you and God bless.....

Girlfriend Problems Forum :: Is she interested in another guy?

Author: Isitreallylove
Subject: Is she interested in another guy?
Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 6:53 am (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 0

My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years now and lately I think something has been going on. We both have school at the same time and 2-3 times a week she goes to her best friends house. Her best friend has a boyfriend, who in my mind is dirty, and his friend are also there. Her best friends boyfriend seems a little to close. I see them smacking each other in the forehead a lot, but apparently, it's just a "game". When she walks away in the hall, I turn to see her walking down the hall with him. Recently I leaned tht my girlfriend likes to play videogames with the two same guys who I absolutely hate. She knows I don't like them, and when I ask we about them all she does is get pissed at me. I'm pretty sure something is going on, but I want your opinion.

Online Sex Advice and Sexual Problems Forum :: RE: How do I cope with male rape?

Author: HEN
Posted: Mon Apr 23, 2012 3:21 pm (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 2

I too agree the best route would be conselling

Love Forum - Love Advice Forum :: RE: Love and eye contact

Author: HEN
Posted: Mon Apr 23, 2012 3:19 pm (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 7

Hi I doubt it's love but you are obviously attracted to this man. Is it someone who you could date?

Online Sex Advice and Sexual Problems Forum :: RE: Encouraging My Wife to Masturbate to Improve Our Sex Lives

Author: HEN
Posted: Mon Apr 23, 2012 3:07 pm (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 2

A lot of woman can only achieve orgasm through vibrators and/or oral pleasure.
However a man see's sex very differetly than a lot of woman (not all but a lot)
Woman tend to want another person involved, they tend to want closeness etc. Some woman masturbate but many never do and never care to.
It's like more men like porn. Porn aimed at woman tells more of a story and has a build up to the actually sex act.
I think as long as your wife is happy with how it is then leave it, you may actually upset her trying to encourage her to seek more when she doesn't wnat it and is perfectly happy as it is.
After all she does orgasm with a vibrator so she is getting the best bit
It is nice to hear you are so caring though

Boyfriend Problems Forum :: RE: Nearly 6 years and it's falling apart

Author: HEN
Posted: Mon Apr 23, 2012 2:54 pm (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 3

Edited by Monitor

Sorry Hen, we cannot mention specific tablets on the forum but we can recommend a person look on the internet to do some research for themselves. Thank you so much for your input/s, they are much appreciated x

Sue

Online Sex Advice and Sexual Problems Forum :: RE: Encouraging My Wife to Masturbate to Improve Our Sex Lives

Author: cmartin
Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2012 8:42 am (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 2

there are many possibilities to the situation. like you stated it could be the stressful lives you both lead, it could be diet or it might even be that she is asexual/grey-sexual. Main thing is just to talk with out pressure or judgment on either side, you'll get there eventually xx good luck

Online Sex Advice and Sexual Problems Forum :: RE: How do I cope with male rape?

Author: cmartin
Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2012 8:20 am (GMT 1)
Topic Replies: 2

I don't really know about male rape as I'm female but just talking about it will help. Try going to a support group as they are apparing more and more as male rape is getting more recognised now. Don't just ignore it as it won't go away. Maybe trying speaking to Relate or a coucelling group in your area, they will give you support.