As i look back on my life i see many broken hearts, many mistakes, many words i wished had never been spoken, many dreams shattered and laying in pieces, yet i know they are only negatives if i make them so.
If i learn to make the relationships i have now last, learn to speak only words i will not regret, dream of things and realize them, if from past experiences i learn how to make the future better for me and anyone i have dealings with, then even the most painful experiences shall have beeen positive ones.
The only negatives are those i allow to be so.