This statement was Written by a man:


"OK ladies, let's just calm down ...

"Whatever society has perpetuated for last century is NOT a fact: men are not all dogs who want to have sex, eat, sleep and watch sports. Like most women (all women if you ask me) we can be moody, feel fat, get uncomfortable ... and, yes, lose our sex drive when tired!! SHOCKER, Men are not all porn stars!

"Some girls think this might mean cheating or a sign that he's gay ... well, you're SO WRONG. If a guy is gay, he would vomit when having sex with you and would never ask for a quickie. Here is a good gay test - check his computer for gay porn! Ask his buddies ... flirt with his buddies. Did he get jealous? If he did, he's probably NOT gay.

"Also, cheating does not equal disinterest in sex. It just means he's getting extra sex ... and you're second on his list.

"Truth be told, men are a lot like women ... we have to be in the mood. Live with it, if you can't, look in the mirror and face YOUR insecurity ... not HIS!"

by Linda:
We complain that all men want is sex, yet we complain when they're not giving it to us enough?

No wonder men think women are 'complicated'.

Men can and do wax and wain with their libido. Maybe tiredness (sleep depravation is only too common in our 24 hour world) health, diet, bordom,
routine

Intelligent males & females know that Porn is basically just for entertainment & to incite arousal in both sexes. Women watch porn and men watch porn. It causes both genders to get excited & both males & females like porn.They even have porn for women & PlayGirl online.Playgirl cost's some money but worth it all,every single penny!
the women in porn do not all have perfect bodies & they don't all look great! Women like porn to.I use to watch it but decided against it because I started wanting two men & thought about having two men all the time.It makes people lust.Anyway,porn in and of itself isn't really all that bad if LUST doesn't get a hold on you,cause most guys use it to get erections & to get aroused despite what they tell you or say around female ears,lol... Guy's will have you believing they don't need no help to get aroused,lol...They are liar's & porn also teaches them alot about women,most of it isn't true while some of it is. Guy's are not as horney as they all claim to be & if they were truthful about it,people would have better relationship's.Ladies,if you get upset that your man watches porn,then you do not know what porn is all about,trust me!!!
The women aren't all gorgeous or in perfect shape,bodily or otherwise & the men all have bigger than normal penis's,but none of these people are perfect,not at all.They are people just having sex for the money & doing it more for that reason,not for pleasure or fun.It's not that big of a deal.If a person gets messed up on porn & begins to lust all the time,then he or she may pose a threat to society,but for those who are normal & understand what it is & what it is not,then you should be ok!Face it,guys are not the horn dogs they want you to think they are!Ladies Turn your EGO up & listen to it,I have a huge female Ego & guys brag because of their Ego,so don't take this stuff personally because if you do he gets a bigger ego trip from it & you will just feel sad,hurt & insecure! Learn how to LOVE yourself & you'll get respect even if some guys think they
can fool you,you'll know the real deal.Ladies enjoy having sex.
Porn isn't a big deal if you understand it ok?just remember this one thing ok if you don't already know,It's for entertainment & arousal,and look at the males in porn! Most guys Just WISH they had a dong like that,lol.... Don't listen to the males & their Ego talking,understand your own Ego cause it's crying out to you to be heard!
If you have a guy who want's you to believe he's more into porn than you then Your guy is trippin,so why not let him go & start over fresh & clean with a worthy man? respect works both ways,& if he loved you he wouldn't use you to boost his ego like he does!!! Ponder that one ok?
SEX is a wonderful thing when used the right way amen.

I'd just like to add to this one that women have Ego's also ;)

Having sex daily sounds like heaven to a man. And to some respect it is. However,if it's given daily there is a chance that 2 things will happen. 1)He can get bored of having sex with you daily...2) A guy needs time for his soldiers to regenerate and for his "tool" to relax. By waiting 2-3 days in between having sex it feels so much better than doing it everyday 3 times a day. Perhaps switch it up with them.In one week do it 3 days in a row..wait then go again for 2 days etc...it's always better when a man doesn't expect it. We are also not always in the mood,but it's alot easier to help us get in the mood.Although some women think that is impossible,there is one thing that will never fail....ORAL!!

If a man cheats on you there is a high probability that he is either unsatisfied with his sex life,therefore he seeks it out elsewhere,or because he isn't emotionally happy. Believe it or not men can feel lonely and unloved also,but we sometimes hide it alot better since we don't talk about our emotions.

Livewire wrote:

I'd just like to add to this one that women have Ego's also ;)

I totally agree 100%! You are right!

al wrote:

Having sex daily sounds like heaven to a man. And to some respect it is. However,if it's given daily there is a chance that 2 things will happen. 1)He can get bored of having sex with you daily...2) A guy needs time for his soldiers to regenerate and for his "tool" to relax. By waiting 2-3 days in between having sex it feels so much better than doing it everyday 3 times a day. Perhaps switch it up with them.In one week do it 3 days in a row..wait then go again for 2 days etc...it's always better when a man doesn't expect it. We are also not always in the mood,but it's alot easier to help us get in the mood.Although some women think that is impossible,there is one thing that will never fail....ORAL!! If a man cheats on you there is a high probability that he is either unsatisfied with his sex life,therefore he seeks it out elsewhere,or because he isn't emotionally happy. Believe it or not men can feel lonely and unloved also,but we sometimes hide it alot better since we don't talk about our emotions.

Ladies,listen to Al! He's totally honest here & being real with us.
Thanks for this post Al!

No problem.

Just letting you ladies know that not all men are total perverts/horndogs.Just mostare. LOL

oh god after reaing this post I just realised I m a pervert!