Compared to most fidelity problems this one may seem petty, but its eating me up and seriously depressing me.

Last May I found out that my husband had sent nearly 50 texts to the same number. While he was sleeping I checked his phone and he'd been texting a girl who at his request had sent him photos of her (clothed) boobs.

It led to an argument in which he declared it was just a laugh. Obviously I then had trust issues so I checked his Facebook account and found he had been exchanging private messages with various girls, being flirty and asking them to send him photos - including his ex who he supposedly hated - asking her for photos and telling her he missed her and her body.

I very nearly ended things then, but he persuaded me to give us another go and for the sake of our daughter and because I love him deeply I agreed.

He has always seemingly ignored what I define as 'appropriate behaviour for a married man' as he's always been quite flirty.

Recently Ive become very suspicious again as he's been very secretive with his Facebook.
I hate to admit it but yet again I've checked up on him.

Through his emails I know that he's been exchanging pivate messages with a couple of new girls.
This morningI fially go intohisFacebook acount nd red through th all.

Although there was nothing explicit or suggestive I'm still mightily p-ed off. He claimed he didnt really no one of the women, but he'd been exchanging messages with her for a month and has spoken to her in the chat feature.
He sent a message to his ex again this month even though I made it clear last time that for me to stay he had to cut ties with her.

And finally he's been chatting frequently to one particular girl alot. telling her what her best features are (including her 'cute bum') and joking that I'd assume they were having an affair if I found out. He also told her he was confused and from the tone of the messages I really think that he's develope feelings for this girl.

He's going out tomorrow night with his mates (even though he knew that I wanted us to go out together on that date) and I know he's asked her if she's going to go out to.

Do I confront him about it all and ask him outright how he feels about her and exactly whether this marriage is what he wants or not seeing as he can't seem to help himself when he sees a pretty face?

Help me please????

Sounds like there is a pattern here, so I would defintely confront him to find out how he really feels about you and your relationship.