hi i have a problem wonder if you can help i have been with my partner for 2 and half yrs never met his family as his mum disaproved of the age gap hes 42 and im 53 but we were verry happy together he has 3 young children and always went home on wednesday and came back on thursday 3 weeks ago he went and never came back with no word then a few days later his friend told me his mum had passed away and he has hit the drink big time i tried texting him no reply i send him texts every day he is now fighting was put in hospital but sighned him self out now he was seen sitting on a bench at 10 in the morning drinking cider his phone has been swithed off for 3 days now and im so so worried about him i cant eat or sleep i have lost a stone in weight i love this guy can you give me some advice please thanks alison

He just lost his mother.So my advise is give him some time alone may be he does not want to share his feeling right now .But do leave him a message that you are concerned and willing to meet him whenever he feels comfortable.