Is my girlfriend cheating on me? I have always been a guy who trusts,but something is off!! first thing is she is consumed with her phone from morning till night ! she always tells me who it is but sometimes it is like she has to be on it even though her friends she has known for 20+years. I live an hour away from her and i will spend weekends with her! my slippers where hidden in the closet ,when the used to be out in the open near the front door! Yesterday she said she was going to her brothers house wich is normal but she left at 930 10 pm and she has to work in the mornings she never has done that b4! she rarely knows what to say when we are talking on the phone wich used to be 3 times a day now it is once or maybe twice and i have to keep the converation going or there will be long silences from her . I timed 1 awkward silence b4 and it was 2 minutes and i couldnt take it no more and spoke first like usual.I have always thought her behavior is so sketchy!! and we have been together for 8 months!! Its getting better but alot of suspect random things happen all the time!
She is not one to talk about her feelings,but i try so hard to talk to her and she gets defensive,so i let it go!This is just an example of her behavior but i have got many odd behavior examples i can share,I do love her but i am getting tiredof it!!
ANY ADVISE would be greatly appreciated

First off, most girls are on their phone from morning until night, and she probably just cleaned up the area and put your slippers were they should be. Your being a little paranoid don't you think? You could be right, you could be wrong. Either way, stressing out about isn't going to get you anywhere. So, first things first. Calm down, take a step back and is that who she is? Is that apart of her character? I think the best thing you can do is ask her, and take her word for it. If she gets mad tell her something like "I just don't want to lose you" or something like that, make it romantic, very easy [I have done this].

If she is, just place your trust in her and it will come out eventually. Just try to stay emotionally detatched from her until you know for sure she isn't. Don't go snooping or doing anything like that, just trust her. You don't want to mess up something good. I say take it easy.

It's hard to tell.

When girls are into me, they always have something to say on the phone.

When they're attracted to someone else, it's hard to get into a conversation with them.

She may be either
- into someone else
- losing attraction for you

One huge mistake I've made in the past was putting too much attention on things like this which drove both of us wild and ended our relationships.

So drop the subject of who she's always talking to and move on. Act calm, cool and happy.

(If she ends up noticing you not caring, she may put more focus and attention on you. It's happened to me before)

Good luck!

I can't really help my friend but I sympathise. I've just posted about a possible cheating issue and it's horrible. It makes you feel sick inside doesn't it? I'll keep an eye on your thread for advice.