Hi im new to all this i didnt know where to turn so came here i have being with my girlfriend for 6 months to the day yesterday. on weds night her mum met her to bitch about me say how i was controlling her and that how she spent too much time with me ...i never made her stay she only stayed when she wanted to and she knew this ... her mum also said to her that she could do way better then me.

my gf told me this and that she didnt agree and that we are strong and everything between us was fine

yesterday i met her from college and we went round shops and everythign was great as normal

today has come ...i've been out all day and shes moved all her stuff out and told me its over and thats it ...saying she wants more time with her family and more time to herself and that she cant split the time between us. ive never expected her to have to. she knew she could see them at any time she stayed at mine only when she wanted to.

i just dont know what to do i love her with everything i got
she wont even see me

i said i'll be in touch after her exams and that are over she said email me and we'll see from there and just walked away from me and wouldnt even look back

i just dont know what to think ....ive got so many things goin round in my head is there some1 else. why is this happening etc

please help

I really feel for ya man,

Would it be rude for me to ask how old you are as you mentioned her exams. What you have to do in my opinion is not come across as desperate like it or not in young relationships these days its all a game, and you have to be in it to win it. You may love her, you may not want to play games but if nothing else is working its gotta be worth a shot right. Women are always going to be hard to figure out, my advice tactic is dont contact her for a couple of weeks, let her feel that your moving on with your life, and when i say no contact nothing don't reply straight away if she contacts you. Let her sweat, sometimes we have to be reminded of what we have lost, to realise what we had. Just play it cool show her your male strengths, confidence is always a good thing when impressing women, if your begging she knows your there for when ever and if she changes her mind. Go out with your mates let it be known subtley that you are getting on with it and you understand and respect her wishes.

im 20 shes 17 and it her a levels. and i get ya but the problem is since sat urday her mum has bought her a load of stuff i dont see how i can compete