i have been in a relationship for 18 yrs with the woman i truly love and we have 4 beautiful daughters ages 11 , 4 , and 1 yr old twins my drinking has caused so many problems over this time my wife says she cant go on and has to focus now on life without me i am not violent abusive or unfaithful i just tell lies and drink whenever i can she has given me ultimatums in the past and i have always tried to give up but i think more for her than me this time it has hit me hard as we were 1 minute away from telling our kids we were splitting up but decided we will wait a few days as our eldest was going on a school trip since then i have sought medical help and my wife has agreed to support me but says although she loves me she may never be in love with me again we have decided to take up a hobby together and still spend our time together share the same bed and cuddle loads i have made a promise to my eldest girl and truly beleive i will not drink again and make my families happiness my main aim do you think my wife can be in love with me again or have i gone too far this time