Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 9:36 pm |
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So I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and I really like her, at a scale from 1-10 an 8. She is also my first girlfriend but I am not the first boyfriend but am the best and most meaningful boyfriend. I trust her 100% and she does with me. When I got in the relationship with her she told me she is not big on expressing her feeling towards me and that she isn't big on sticking to a relationship long. That she will eventually get bored ofthe relationship. Curently she likes me alot but that is not gonna change into anything more. She is very independent and likes to do new things, that includes possibly relationships. I accepted that thinking that she might change of fall for me. 6 months later and I like her more then she likes me. She drives me crazy when she's not with me but she's calm where she is. Sure shed like me around but she's not going crazy over it like I am. She went on vacation overseas and now she is saying that being with her friends there and seeing their relationship problems and how they aren't really happy anymore after some time made her officially see that what she told me abt not loving people and not being with them for a very long time is more true. That it is how she is. This is scaring me now because I really like her but her feelings haven't changed, and they will never. She says I will grow bored of her also and move on. That could be true but who know when. If she grows bored of me first I will be heart broken. And if I don't grow bored of her I'm screwed. I really don't know what to do. I care to much about her.
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