I need some peoples input on a situation that recently happened to me. I am wondering if I reacted wrong. I have been married for almost 16 years now. It has been a marriage of very few fights but during the last year my wife’s job has required her to go out of town for a few days. This last time it was 2 nights away, just her and a male co-worker. They had separate rooms but at the end of each day of long lectures she would wind down by going to his room and watching a movie. She has always been very honest with me and the first night made sure to tell me what was going on. After she told me my mind went wild all I could picture was the two of them sitting in bed together watching a movie. The second night she called and told me she was going to watch a movie again but after thinking about the whole thing all day I kinda freaked a little and asked about the seating arrangements and made it very clear that I didn’t think this was acceptable thing to be doing. She assured me she was not in his bed and that she loved me and has no interest in this guy. I honestly can say I’m not worried about her cheating but I worried about the situation she was putting herself in by being alone in a hotel room. I don’t know what this guy is capable of doing to her. She assured me that he’s happily married and felt safe with him and seemed to disregard my feeling for the whole situation. So she somehow made me feel like dung for thinking this way and I ended up apologizing for freaking out. Now I know this isn’t a marriage ending issue but I just need to know if I was wrong or if she should be apologizing to me?Thanks

Your wife was honest and told that she was watching a movie with this man... If itso innocent that she herself told you.. Then why are you so worried. I think that the situation was slightly strange and can understand why you were upset but at the same time your wife was prob lonly or bored

I think that your justified in having a concern. Most relationships of infidelity happen at work because of the amount of time spent with co-workers and bonds that are formed. I think that her honesty and forthcoming about what she was doing probably should ease your mind, but I think that a face to face discussion about how it made you feel is warranted when she gets home. Expressing you don't believe she would cheat, but that the image of her situation made you feel uneasy and would probably do the same if the situation were reversed will hopefully have you both agreeing that neither of you will recreate that situation again