I dont know if you all will find this a problem but i do.
We have lots of sex, most of the time every 2st day. Its good sex but i am not allowed to do much.
I just lay there and she loves being on top. About 20-40 mins it leasts. any other styles is no good.
She seems to want to get on and get done and alot of the time i am not finished when she wants to get off, so i kinda have to force it out.
I am NOT allowed to touch her boops until all most the end of the sex and i am never allowed to go down on her. I get a BJ one a month and it never is followed by sex. I am only allowed to give one every 6 months, but i love going down on her.

I dont think i am doing anything wrong, but i feel i am.

Martin

It is logical and natural that you see it as a problem. If there are some things in sexual relationship which you would love to do but you are not allowed by your partner, then it is a big source of frustration... And your wishes are not extravagant or deviant at all, so it is hard to understand why she does not allow you to touch her, why she does not allow more oral sex, other positions etc...
The problem is that some people are not very flexible when it comes to their sexual behaviour or sexual scenarios...Has she ever explained to you WHY she will not allow you to touch her? It really does not have to be your mistake, I do not think that you are doing something wrong, so I guess that the roots of the problem may be in her attitude to sex in general, probably some inhibitions?, feelings of discomfort?, bad past or childhood experiences?...I do not know.
In my case, there were some girls in my past who would never allow certain things (positions, oral sex) - for example, my ex-wife never gave me oral sex in spite of the fact that she knew that I would love to have this experience with her and we discussed it many times. But she was not very "sexual" in general, she refused sex more than she "accepted" it as a source of pleasure... So this is quite interesting in your situation (and this point is new to me): your girlfriend is not "asexual", she has sex quite often and in spite of that she refuses so many good things... I would always suppose that these "refusing" people would refuse also sex itself (more or less) which seems not to be the case with your partner.
I would understand her behaviour under certain situations - role playing, dominance/submissive sexual games, orgasm control, fem-dom etc...but I do not think this is her case, so I do not know what the reasons may be.
It could really help you if you could find out the REAL reasons why she feels so negatively towards those things....or has she always been like this (I mean with her ex-partners etc?).
From certain point of view, I would love girls being on top, in fact woman on top is my favourite sexual position (but paradoxically I have never found a girl who would love sex in this position...), but of course it is very frustrating if she refuses also other things which might be pleasurable for you - and above all, if she does not allow to touch you, I guess there must be some serious issues...most probably not connected with you, but with some deeper roots in her attitude or (bad) experience.

Shes told me loads of times before that she just doesn`t get enjoyment from most things i do, but when i ask what she likes i never get an answer. She said shes never reciveing oral sex. She doesn`t like it and once every 6 months i am allowed a bit and all i get is i dont like it over and over again. She must feel something.

She is happy for me to do a little work but i can quite annoyed that what ever i do, is point less for her.
I want to make her enjoy it with me on top and it never works out that way. Its like shes bored, everything is wrong, makes her sore or just is not nice, so end up giving up and going back to the same old thing again.
What she doesn`t understand is that some of the positions she does, i dont get anything from them but i stay still for her about i love the fact that shes liking it.
Shes always cums first and i can for forever, but after she cums, she just keeps saying hurry up etc etc and 2/3 times she jumps off as soon as she feels me do my bit. i mean like seconds after.

Martin